15 JulRunning Raw

   I’ve started eating raw food again.  I did it last year too when I had more time to cook or rather prepare foods.  I easily lost extra weight and kicked caffeine.  Last time I had tried to kick caffeine – I was a zombie for a week.  This time I felt ok within 2 days.  When Dave and I moved back to Hoboken, I started working more and it became difficult for me to prepare the foods.  I fell back into eating meat and dairy b/c it was easy to cook and get at local restaurants.  The only raw/vegan foods available are at FarmBoy and I didn’t want to eat the same things everyday, so I gave in to pizza and chinese food.

   I got hooked on caffeine again too, which does not do well with my system at all.  Dave can drink espressos all day and still fall asleep at night if he stops by 3pm, but me – if I even have one – I can’t sleep until 2am.  I also don’t react well to it.  My body gets achy; I get headaches; mood swings.  It’s just a bad scene.  

   I was feeling tired as usual in February when I finally decided to start running.  I signed up for a 4mile race with my friend Judith.  I figured maybe my lack of cardiovascular health was contributing to my fatigue and not just my diet.  I started running and in the beginning I couldn’t even run a mile outside without wanting to stop. Man, I felt out of shape. Then sure enough after about a month I was bouncing up out of bed and running 3 miles outside without even feeling that tired.  I felt very alert and awake most of the time, with the exception of right after a meal. Read the rest of this entry »

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13 JulNLP

I had an NLP session last week.  NLP is – according to wikipedia – “a system of alternative therapy based on this which seeks to educate people in self-awareness and effective communication, and to change their patterns of mental and emotional behaviour.”  I decided to have a session because I had met a few people who had spoken about it’s effectiveness.  I was having difficulty talking about our business and if I wanted to build a successful one – I’d need to talk about it a lot.  Anthony Robbins is also a big advocate of NLP, so I contacted the NLP center in NYC and had a session. Read the rest of this entry »

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01 JulUps and Downs

I’m having a harder time with my business than I thought I would.  The problem is not the business – b/c I see people around me succeeding.  It’s me.  I have a thing about rejection.   In this business, we do have to sell – and selling successfully is about many things, but most of all – not taking it personally when people say no.  I am certainly not trying to make people get something they don’t need.  I’m resistant to even bringing up the products in the first place. 

My husband is surprising me with how well he’s doing.  He talks to everyone whether he’s scared or not.  I have been talking, but I am getting easily discouraged when everyone is not hopping on board, which I know isn’t rational.  Read the rest of this entry »

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07 MayFinancial Freedom

 

   How hard would you work for the next 3 years, so you can spend the rest of your life doing whatever you want? 

I haven’t been writing blogs because I’ve been busy setting up my business.  I’m a new UnFranchise owner of Market America.  www.MarketAmerica.com/Hoboken

It’s funny – I’ve been asking for praying for guidance for years.  It goes something like this – Please help me find a way to become financially free.  I don’t want my husband to work himself into the grave.  I want us to have the freedom to live life now!  I don’t want the ratrace.   I want a way to start now!  Through a funny series of coincidences I was lead to reread a book, Rich Dad, Poor Dad.  In it – Robert Kiyosake says that network markteting is a way to receive great training from successful people and a way to earn permanent residual income.

   Then my old acquaintance’s name Sue kept popping up in my head.  I emailed her (actually I facebooked her) for the first time in four years and asked her how she was doing with Market America.  She had introduced me to the company four years ago when she started.  She replies that she just took the last year off because she’s financially free now, went to Israel for three months, and had a third child.  

Well, I told her I wanted in!  I had just told Dave that my biggest concerns about having a second child were over money and childcare!  Whatever I had to overcome I would overcome!  I’m tired of fearing about my financial future.  I’m tired of budgeting all the time and still not saving what I “should” be.  I’m tired of not having the standard of living that I want!   It was tiring enough to juggle work, my daughter, and life.  And then at the end of the day – not even having enough money to cover all the things we need to.   We have two destination weddings in the next year that I’ve been stressing over ever since we got the save the date!

I set up a meeting with Sue and evaluated the business plan with my husband.  Then I really got excited!  It was good.  I mean it was really good!  My gut told me with all the conviction in the world to do it!  My gut has only done that on a few occasions – when I signed up for my first Landmark Education course and when I married my husband.

I can feel it.  I know this is it.  I finally found a clear path that will lead me to my goals of financial freedom.  I mean – in 2-3 years I’ll be making $3600/week!  It’s a proven business model that worked for Sue – and tens of thousands of other people across the planet! 

AND I want to help everyone I love reach that same goal!  I think trading time for money is a damn shame.  To work and slave 40-50 hours a week till you’re 65 years old. Or to watch my husband do that and work himself into the ground only to get a reprieve on those few holidays and yearly vacations.  Screw all that!  My husband is so tired when he comes home every night it saddens my heart.  I am willing to go for it and work hard for 3 years to free myself from our “probable predictable-certain future.”  There’s nothing to lose and everything to gain!  And I don’t have to quit tutoring to do it – it’s designed for the part-timer.  I have been having no trouble juggling this and work and Mikayla.    Some of my family members already cast their skeptical doubt clouds over me.  They aren’t listening, but it doesn’t matter.  I will show them by doing it myself first.  Then I’ll bring them with me!

I am playing this game for my life and everyone I love.  I just want to know – “Who’s coming with me!”

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19 AprIt’s Birthday #32

  

    Well, my daughter and I have a sore throat and cough on my birthday, but that hasn’t gotten me down at all!  I had a lot of people wish me a happy birthday today and that has made me super happy!  I’m always appreciative about how awesome people can be.   Not that I don’t think people can be great, but I’m always pleasantly surprised. I try not to be the friend I wish I had and not put my expectations on others. (I try anyway – I am still human)

   Well, a few good things happened in the last week.  (I’m making it a point to write blogs at least once a week.)  So since last Monday… Read the rest of this entry »

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12 AprNeighbors in Hoboken

   

 Our laundry machine broke last week.  Well, maybe “break” is a strong word – it started making a loud thumping noise during the spin cycle.  At which our neighbors below us began hitting the ceiling to signal their displeasure.  We wrote an email to our Landlord about the machine.  Her response was basically 3 things.  It’s a new machine.  Your neighbors say your machine is on “all the time.” Maybe you should take a break with the laundry.

   Our twice weekly laundry days are too much?  It used to be once a week until the weather got warmer.  It is sometimes three times a week – on the occasions that we do our entire bedding at once.  The machine is pretty small.  My point is – is it too much?  Is there a “too much” number when it comes to a family’s laundry? 

    Living in Hoboken is not always easy.  Buildings are stacked up high and it’s virtually impossible to make it sound proof.  Even the newer buildings have some sound leakage.  We have a 2.5 year old daughter who is no longer allowed to jump in her own home or play with heavy toys, which is understandable.   Apparently now we shouldn’t do our laundry much either.  How does one lessen their laundry load?  Not wash things until they’ve been soaked in sweat twice?  Only wash our daughter’s clothes if there’s many stains instead of one? Read the rest of this entry »

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09 AprOvercoming Obstacles in Running

  

My new kicks!

   I see that trying to become a good runner is a lot like trying to become good at anything in life.  I’m in my 7th week of running and a few obstacles have come up.  When I made the switch from treadmill to pavement a few weeks back – I noticed that it was MUCH harder to run outside.  It takes much more strength to hoist my body forward then to have a nice running belt loop around for me.  I compensated by adding an incline to the treadmill.  Problem solved – now it’s about the same difficulty as outside.  Then another obstacle came up.  The pavement-pounding left my knees and my feet bones aching after my first run 2.5 mile run.  I did some research and went to the running store and discovered that I have “flat feet.”  Which means I turn my feet in when I run, which then puts more shock on my knees.  Hence, the knee pain.  I also needed better running sneakers, which provide more cushioning and shock absorption for my feet.  Ok – I bought myself some nice running sneakers, the Brooks Adrenaline and orthotics to correct my flat footedness.  Read the rest of this entry »

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